I woke up this morning and signed on Twitter just to see a girl...wait scratch that...a Woman tweeting about a gentleman she's involved with. Apparently she was in the hospital, because of this gentleman, and instead of calling her, he chooses to go out to play basketball and go out clubbing. I say Woman instead of girl because of a comment she made which shows maturity and acknowledgment of the situation, something a Girl lacks: "...I thought I was gonna be broken up..NOPE just mad..." Hearing about things like this makes me sick. It is because of guys like these that dedicated Women like her become less dedicated in their relationships, especially when they finally meet a Man who is very dedicated to them...SMH...Its so sad how these BASIC N@#&S seem to be the ones who get these Women. SMH @ you these fellas for doing the WRONG things to the RIGHT Women...
Understood i see you speaking about what men do to females .. buh it should be seen on a two way streak on both ends on the sexes ... not just what males do, because there are females out there who do their dirt as well.
ReplyDeleteThis is absolutely true pal, but you must address both sides, without criticizing or judgement, PURE FACTS!
ReplyDeleteTo also touch on what you said, don't allow one persons mistake to affect the way you handle everything or everyone else.Dont go into a relationship with the mindsight of your previous, cus guarantee, you will get the same results or worse. As they say, "one man's lost, is another man's treasure"-?. but yea
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I completely understand where you guys are coming from. I wasn't trying to address address relationships. Just some of the things people do that influent how people see relationships. If it were a female that did the same thing, I wouldve addressed it too and addressed her for her actions...But both of you make strong points:
ReplyDeleteGuys are not always the ones compromising relationships. Girls have their moments as well.
And you shouldn't carry your hardships into your future relationships, although some people cant help but to. People tend to turn their backs on what should be in front of them because they are too concerned with what should be left behind.